If you are thinking that a club is a place where you can spend a few minutes and walk out with a hot chick, you are kidding yourself. Just the same, the club is a great place to train for picking up girls. There you can practice your approach while enjoying some success. There are certainly other places where you can meet women: parks, beaches, various stores. And approaching women in these places is really quite a bit easier than doing so in a club, due to the fact that they will not be so on guard. When you choose to seek companionship in a club, you are making the choice that will present you with the greatest challenge and a smaller likelihood of success.
When a girl goes to a club, she prepares herself emotionally and mentally ahead of time before she walks in the door. She knows that there will be many men there who may approach her, and she knows what she will do to discourage any she does not want to engage. She may not want to deal with any encounters, and just have a drink with her girlfriends, so she may, in fact, be very unapproachable. For this reason, it is probably NOT a good idea to expect that you are going to convince a woman in the club to repair to your bungalow. Instead, you would do better to use the time and the venue to practice breaking the ice with a variety of women, and learning what behaviors lead to a woman feeling at ease with you.
When you walk into the club, you are met with darkness, smoke, and a high volume of noise. Naturally, this is not the ideal environment in which to carry on a conversation. It becomes necessary to lean forward into a woman's face to engage her in friendly conversation. This can work to your advantage in maintaining your stealth even after an initial rejection. Most clubbers are oblivious to what is going on around them in the club. So you have a way to deal with any rejection and stay in the game.
Old man, don't be afraid to go to the club tonight and run into that skank who told you to take a hike last week. Not likely to happen, m'friend. You won't have to deal with her giving you the hippie stare and ruining the fishing in the pond. You better be hip to the fact that these clubber babes are into the status thing. If one of them treats you like four-day-old cod, then the other babies are going to pick up on it, then you will be chopped liver, Squidly. Just the way it is, Dude -- she is just keeping up appearances.
As you proceed with training yourself in the club scene, you are naturally going to have experiences that will help you to grow in the role as "male on the prowl." All the rejections you will suffer will provide you wil the experience necessary to successfully engage unattached females at non-club venues, such as the park, the college, and the market. A good way to prepare yourself for operating in the club is to use the Internet to search out tips on conversations. - 31877
When a girl goes to a club, she prepares herself emotionally and mentally ahead of time before she walks in the door. She knows that there will be many men there who may approach her, and she knows what she will do to discourage any she does not want to engage. She may not want to deal with any encounters, and just have a drink with her girlfriends, so she may, in fact, be very unapproachable. For this reason, it is probably NOT a good idea to expect that you are going to convince a woman in the club to repair to your bungalow. Instead, you would do better to use the time and the venue to practice breaking the ice with a variety of women, and learning what behaviors lead to a woman feeling at ease with you.
When you walk into the club, you are met with darkness, smoke, and a high volume of noise. Naturally, this is not the ideal environment in which to carry on a conversation. It becomes necessary to lean forward into a woman's face to engage her in friendly conversation. This can work to your advantage in maintaining your stealth even after an initial rejection. Most clubbers are oblivious to what is going on around them in the club. So you have a way to deal with any rejection and stay in the game.
Old man, don't be afraid to go to the club tonight and run into that skank who told you to take a hike last week. Not likely to happen, m'friend. You won't have to deal with her giving you the hippie stare and ruining the fishing in the pond. You better be hip to the fact that these clubber babes are into the status thing. If one of them treats you like four-day-old cod, then the other babies are going to pick up on it, then you will be chopped liver, Squidly. Just the way it is, Dude -- she is just keeping up appearances.
As you proceed with training yourself in the club scene, you are naturally going to have experiences that will help you to grow in the role as "male on the prowl." All the rejections you will suffer will provide you wil the experience necessary to successfully engage unattached females at non-club venues, such as the park, the college, and the market. A good way to prepare yourself for operating in the club is to use the Internet to search out tips on conversations. - 31877
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